Deep Throating - And I Don't Mean Watergate

So much is discussed about the whole Deep Throat thing... A few thoughts.
The whole gag thing has to do with a specific length of the cock. As long as it either doesn't reach the gag spot, or it goes past it, gaging isn't a problem. The thickness is another thing, but not in terms of gagging so much as, will it fit. Then there's the curve factor. If it has a big upward curve, then you have to go at it in a 69 position (more or less). I mean... the railroad tracks have to curve the same way as the tunnel to get the train through. Of course having said all of this, I'm left with an issue. I like the gagging and slurpping and gurggeling noises. I'm a good deep throater, so sometimes I have to fake not being because some guys really like the fact that they are too much to handle and want to have that force aspect. Fucking a mouth makes the fucker the top. sounds pretty basic, but you'd be surprised at how many times I feel like I'm being very specific about being an oral bottom and then come to find out that the guy thinks that means I want to get my dick sucked... ?
I debate mentioning this.. of what the hell. The guy on the internet (and on this site specifically) called Fleshlight mouth... A most talented force of nature. He can swallow the biggest cocks in the world over and over again to the hilt... That's great, but I find that as I'm watching his videos, I become bored. Where's the sound, where's the challenge, where's the interest? Don't get me wrong, I'm sure if you have a big dick it feels great. I just think it makes for a really boring viewing experience. There's something so easy about it for him that there's something missing... call it the worship factor. I prefer watching the guys giving it their all and gagging and slobbering and begging with tears streaming down their cheeks. But... maybe that's just me. To each their own